Be aware that individuals who are dying may seek and find comfort and reassurance in a religious faith associated with family heritage or beliefs that they held previously; do not assume that a person who does not normally express any faith or religion would automatically not wish to share in prayer or rituals.
Some suggested pre-written prayers and words of comfort are included below.
Christians
The Lord's Prayer may be used for those who profess a Christian faith or are from a Christian tradition:
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Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be Thy name, Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread. Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Thine is the kingdom, the power, and the glory, for ever and ever. Amen.
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Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name, Your kingdom come, Your will be done, on earth as in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our sins, as we forgive those who sin against us. Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For the kingdom, the power, and the glory are yours, now and for ever. Amen.
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The 23rd Psalm may also be used:
The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
He makes me lie down in green pastures, He leads me beside quiet waters, He refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths for His Name’s sake.
Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for You are with me;
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
Surely Your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
NIV
Judaism
Jewish prayers for a dying patient focus on confession, accepting God's will, and declaring faith. The most crucial prayer is the Shema Yisrael, ideally the last words spoken: "Hear, O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is One".
A short prayer a patient may want to say is:
My God and God of all who have gone before me, Author of life and death, I turn to You in trust. Although I pray for life and health, I know that I am mortal. If my life must soon come to an end, let me die, I pray, at peace.
If only my hands were clean and my heart pure! I confess that I have committed sins and left much undone, yet I know also the good that I did or tried to do. May my acts of goodness give meaning to my life, and may my errors be forgiven.
Protector of the bereaved and the helpless, watch over my loved ones. Into Your hand I commit my spirit; redeem it, O God of mercy and truth.
God reigns; God has reigned; God will reign forever and ever.
Blessed be God’s name whose glorious dominion is forever.
Hear, O Israel: the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
The 23rd Psalm (above) may also be used.
Islam
Offer to help patients who follow the Islamic faith to turn towards the Qibla (in the direction of the Kaaba in Mecca) and comfort them with the Shahadah: Gently prompt the patient to say "La ilaha illallah" ("There is no god but Allah") or recite it near them.
Dua (Supplication) is a simple prayer: "O Allah, forgive [name of person] and elevate his station among those who are guided".
When the person passes, say "Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un" ("To Allah we belong and to Him is our return")
Sikhism
These words from Sikh scripture can be said for patients who follow Sikh faith:
You are our Lord and Master; to You, I offer this prayer.
This body and soul are all Your property.
You are our mother and father; we are Your children.
In Your Grace, there are so many joys!
No one knows Your limits.
O Highest of the High, Most Generous God,
the whole creation is strung on Your thread.
That which has come from You is under Your Command.
You alone know Your state and extent.
Nanak, Your slave, is forever a sacrifice.
Guru Arjan Dev ji – 268
Chanting of ‘Waheguru Waheguru….’ can also be done by those around the patient alongside the above verse.
Hinduism
A short prayer to pray for a Hindu patient who has died:
As a man shedding worn out garments and takes other new ones likewise the embodied soul casting off worn out bodies enters into others which are new. We offer our prayers to our saviour, Ishwar to shower his choicest blessings upon the dear departed soul of ……to forgive his/her trespasses and to redeem the soul to His Kingdom/ Vakunth Loka to live a life of bliss forever.
Om Dyauh Shaantih, Antariksham Shaantih, Prithvi Shaanti, Raapah Shaantih, Oshadhayah Shaantih, Vanaspatayah Shaantih, Vishvedevaah Shaantih, Brahma Shaantih, Sarvam Shaanti, Shaanti Reva Saantih, Saamaa Shaantiredhih, Om Shaantih, Shaantih, Shaantih.
Alternatively, a prayer for peace and wellbeing for the dying Hindu patient:
Om bhur bhuvah swah tatsavitur varenyam bhargo devasya dhimahi dhiyo yo nah prachodayat
O Almighty God! Thou art the giver of life, remover of pains and sorrows, the bestower of happiness, may we receive the supreme sin-destroying life of the Creator of the Universe. May thou guide our intellect in the right direction.
Oṃ sarve bhavantu sukhinaḥ
Sarve santu nirāmayāḥ
Sarve bhadrāṇi paśyantu mā kaścidduḥ khabhāgbhaveta
Oṃ śāntiḥ śāntiḥ śāntiḥ
Lord Almighty God in Thee May all be happy, May all be free from Misery, May all realise goodness, and may no one suffer pain.
Om Asato Maa Sad-Gamaya
Tamaso Maa Jyotir Gamaya
Mriyor-Maa Amrtam Gamaya
Om Shaantih Shaantih Shaantih
Lord Almighty God Lead me from the untruth to the
True reality, lead me from darkness to light,
Lead me from death to immortality.
Om Dyauh Shaantih, Antariksham Shaantih, Prithvi Shaanti, Raapah Shaantih, Oshadhayah Shaantih, Vanaspatayah Shaantih, Vishvedevaah Shaantih, Brahma Shaantih, Sarvam Shaanti, Shaanti Reva Saantih, Saamaa Shaantiredhih, Om Shaantih, Shaantih, Shaantih.
O Lord of Universe! Thy celestial regions are full of peace and harmony, peace reigns on Thy earth and Thy waters, the herbs and trees are full of peace. All Thy forces of nature are full of peace and harmony. There is peace and perfection in Thy eternal knowledge. Everything in the universe is peaceful, and peace pervades everywhere through Thy grace. O Supreme Lord! The embodiment of Peace, grant us peace, grant us peace, Grant us peace
Buddhism
This short end of life prayer could provide comfort for dying Buddhist patients:
Salutations to the Noble Triple Gem: Buddha, Dharma and Sangha!!!
Buddha taught that all life is impermanent and that all those who are born must eventually pass from this life. However, everyone has within them the seeds of their past good actions, which have the power to bring a fortunate rebirth in the future.
We pray that through the power of this virtue, through the blessings of the holy beings, and through the force of our heartfelt prayers, you will experience great good fortune and everlasting peace and happiness.
May all beings without exception be released from suffering and find true happiness!
May you go freely. May you find peace.
Words of Comfort without association to any specific faith
Patients who have no religious background may prefer words of comfort that focus on love, legacy, peace, and gratitude rather than theological concepts of afterlife or divinity:
Seek to emphasise comfort, the enduring impact of a life well-lived, and the release from pain.
Gentle, nature-focused language (like "Go gently on your voyage") can help a patient find peace and release.
Simple Gratitude: Short, heartfelt expressions, such as "Thank you for being you," offer comfort.
Consider using three key phrases: "You will not be alone," "You will not feel pain," and "We will be okay".
Other Faiths
For patients of other faiths, follow the principle of seeking to meet the needs of the patient and be guided by any wishes expressed by them. The patient may have a small book of prayers or something similar with them, or you may offer to read words from a sacred text if available.